"It is worse to stay where one does not belong at all than to wander about lost for a while and looking for the psychic and soulful kinship one requires" - Clarissa Estes
If you don't feel at home in a community - leave. If you don't feel good around a friend - stop putting an effort into that friendship. If you feel judged when in the presence of someone else - choose not to see them again.
Because when you leave the people and places that aren't serving your growth anymore - you may be alone for a while, and in my experience, that's not as bad as it seems - but eventually you'll be guided to the people, places and things that support your growth and unconditionally love you.
These connections - these deep, soulful, supportive relationships are what our souls crave, and what we need.
So if you don't have that right now - don't worry. Instead, allow the connections no longer serving you to fade away, and wait, with beautiful anticipation, for those connections to show up. They will. And they'll be Bette than you could have ever imagined.