When we get TOO focused on what we want, we can blind ourselves to the people, opportunities and experiences that might actually be better for us. nothing is perfect, and when we treat it like it is it can actually hamper us. if I'm getting too attached to an outcome I'll say "this - or something better." you don't know what you don't know - and being too focused on one outcome can stop your mind from creating a vision that's more magnificent. keep your mind open to the possibilities of what could arise.